Mindiscovery - nlp, ss, poems, phrase ambiguities

I know that it seems that SS and its theories have been analyzed to death. But I think I have come up with a few 'new' ideas or 'spins' on old ideas about SS.

1) Tell them you fantasize about them:
This one is for someone that you know well enough (girl that is a friend or an acquaintence). Familiarity will let you escape being labeled as a stalker or some kind of pervert. Why it works is simple: Women (and men) want to be desired and feel desirable. By telling them you fantasize about them, shows they are desirable! By using this pattern matter-of-factly and not hitting on them (continue keeping them friends) lends more to the mystique. She HAS TO START reevaluating how she feels about you.
They will immediately ask, 'Really?' and then wonder how long you have had these thoughts. Possibly, 'I didn't know you thought about me that way.' They might even start to imagine what you were imagining!

2) Ask them : 'What are you scared of?'
This one I have used in the past and immediately places girls in a trance. It is not easy to get this one across, but if you are having a more indepth conversation - with a semi-intelligent girl, it usually gets a *pause* and then a really thoughtful answer or 'I am not sure...' with a confused look on their face. Anything that forces her to go deep will bring out this response, but it should be something that she has not really considered before.

3) When you give them your number/email - make sure YOU WRITE IT and place something memorable beside it (drawing, symbol, cartoon, nickname etc)
Here are some memorable ideas:
Nicknames - give yourself a funny nickname that directly deals with the conversation ( if she says 'You are really different', write down David # - the most unique and different guy you know.'
Something directly in conversation (in your first meeting, you complimented her on her style) - call yourself, David - the style police.
Something that you are wearing (if you are really stylish and stand out, make the most of it).
This idea might seem a little odd, but let's break it down. You have just met this girl, good rapport and then you give her your number - David #. Now when you call a few days later and say, 'Hi, its David' - she might know 50 different David's. Make yourself special and unique. Using plain old business cards does not make you unique - I get hundreds of them every month! If you are going to give a business card, give yourself a nickname on the back like above. If you are like me, I hate calling and saying, 'Hi, its David. Remember we met at...' or 'Hi, its David. Remember we spoke a few days ago...' This is too vague. She really might not remember if she has alot going on in her life. Having a cool and unique handle can also be very endearing if you continue to court her.
And if she gives you hers - get her to do the same - it creates a great fun rapport with the person.

4) SECRET METHOD
a) Don't tell a girl everything about yourself!
I believe that everyone is interesting in their own way. But unfortunately, everyone thinks that they interesting - just ask them! This can cause verbal diatribe about yourself with no end in sight. When you meet a girl - keep it to yourself. I know this might be hard, but it will be worth it. You might think you had the most interesting day/week/experience, but for the most part if girls are interested, they will ask. But here's where the mystique comes in : When they do ask - dodge the question (give some vague and short answer with a sly/cheeky smile *IMPORTANT* ) and ask something about her instead. She will soon pick up that you are avoiding the question. Why? What is he trying to cover? This creates a mysterious persona - someone that SHE HAS TO WORK HARD at to discover what is 'inside' YOU.
Her : 'So, you never say anything about you! What did you do today?'
Me : 'You know lots of different things. By the way, how did your weekend go?'
Now she knows you are avoiding the question. For the most part, girls love to talk about themselves anyway. She will inevitably get back to asking the same question again later in the conversation. Don't stall by saying 'nothing'. This will make you seem boring and definitely NOT INTERESTING OR MYSTERIOUS! Always make up a vague notion of doing something that you cannot get into.
b) I have a secret...
Her : 'Ok, you have been avoiding my questions. Come on, out with it. Why won't you tell me anything about you'
Me : 'You want to know my secret?'
Her : 'Yes. Come on!'
Me : 'Are you prepared to take this all the way'
Her : 'Yes' (uncertainty - this will push them over the edge)
Me : 'How do I know you will keep it a secret?'
Her : 'I will'
Me : 'Promise.'
Her : 'Promise.'
Me : 'Ok, you tell me one dark secret and I will tell you one'
(She will not want to go first, but insist - it give you time to match yours against hers). If she says no, let it go and say 'this is give and take, if you don't want to divulge, I won't either.' (non-supplicating)
Have a prepared secret about yourself - it doesn't really have to be anything spectular either - I prefer about sex cuz it sets up the right mood. I have asked many girls about the kinkiest thing they have ever done - red-faced and ashamed, they seem afraid to answer and then say something tame/lame like 'I like to be tied up!'. Owww you bad girl! Or 'what is the weirdest place you have ever had sex?' Most of the time it is mundane like the backseat of a car or in their parents bed. I like to tell them about the time I had sex in the Kmart change room. Sex is a great seguay into bed. You pique their interest and they want to know more about you sexually.
Here are some secrets:
A fight in highschool you had where the bloodlust was more than you expected (girls like a manly encounter)
A sexual encounter (set up for later that night - gets her thinking about sex)
A deviant sexual place (same as above)
Important * Never give too much detail, it will ruin 'still-mysterious' image they have of you. Make it matter-of-factly, but something that you only tell the closest of friends.
c) If you want to know more, you will just have to...
This is one of this most important parts of the method - ASK THEM WHY THEY ARE SO INTERESTED!
This is the final nail. They have to at least ADMIT TO THEMSELVES that they are interested in your secret - and they have to IMAGINE WHAT YOUR SECRET IS! Once they have imagined it, they are already on their way. They want to know more about you -INTIMATELY!

5) T.I.M.E.
I Like to call this the T.I.M.E. routine. I have to give credit to Dohn Joe on this one for rounding out my theory on it. If you want to chase one girl, these are my rules that will allow you accomplish this without resorting to ONEITIS. It has to everything to do with the amount of time and effort (and timing as well) you put into the chasing on this ONE GIRL. It also has a massive amount to do with whether you are dogging chicks in the meantime. The motto 'Put in a little, get out ALOT'.

T)IME/ING - putting in a little time is cool - as long as it does not prevent or supersede you PICKING UP OTHER GIRLS. If putting in even a little time is an obstacle in improving your PUA skills (because you are not practicing with other girls cuz of it), then my friend, move on. Time could also be referred 'timing'. In many cases, when you try to PU a girl - the timing might be wrong. She might really like you, but things have come up in her life that prevent you from scoring. It might be the difference of a day/week/month that changes her mind.
I)NVESTMENT - Emotional investment. If you have some emotional investment or if you want her as a long term girlfriend that is ok. You must learn to manage this emotional - put it in the back of your mind - until you know that this girl is finally yours. Don't let this one girl stop you from Picking Up other girls!
M)OBILE TEXTING - mobile/cellular texting. Isn't technology great?! This a tremendous icebreaker, rapport builder and general friendly way of talking to girls without putting in alot of time. Texting takes less than a minute and could mean the difference between 'GETting'the girl and her 'forGETing' about you. A small text note, saying 'hi, how is your day' is a great way of letting a girl know you are interested - but not so interested that you are investing anything more than a minute of your time.
E)MAIL - email is alot like texting, but offers more in the way of thought-provoking conversation. It is easy to do and a very small investment of your time. Email is great because it does not put the girl on the spot. She is not forced to respond immediately (this means that YOU MUST GET OUT THERE AND PRACTIVE ON OTHER CHICKS IN THE MEANTIME!). It also allows you to think about your response - for those having a hard time with thinking on the spot. It is great for getting to know the girl on a deeper level as well. Girls will say things in email (cuz it is not face to face) that they might feel too inhibited to say in your presence.